The greater the importance you attach to a desire the stronger the balancing forces become. This principle is rarely understood in modern manifestation culture. People are taught to intensify desire, to obsess over goals and to continuously feed emotional energy into imagined futures. They believe that stronger wanting produces faster results. But attachment creates a lot of noise and weakens our ability to naturally attract. It contains fear hidden beneath positive thinking. We become internally dependent on obtaining the outcome. Our emotional balance collapses whenever external reality fails to cooperate immediately. We want something, then we decide that having it is necessary for our happiness. We begin monitoring whether it is happening, looking for signs, imagining obstacles and worrying about the outcome. Our attention becomes concentrated on the distance between our current reality and the reality we want. When something becomes extremely important, our attention becomes narro...
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